ADVICE FROM MY CRUSH

Good morning sweets and welcome to a new day and a new week....

How was your weekend? Mine was great!
To think it's already the 2nd week of August, Hmmm.... Days are really racing! What have you been upto? 2016 so far so good for you? Recorded any milestone yet? If you haven't, you still have about 4 Months to wrap up this year, please make it count!

So about today's post, back in the university, I had a huge crush on this guy, if we had any beef it would feel like my whole life was at a standstill, and this was because my happiness depended largely on him.

So this particular period, we weren't talking and I had exams, on this fateful morning I kept calling and calling but he didn't pick up. When he eventually did, I was crying and telling him "Shey you know I have exams and you're treating me this way" and this was his response....

"Amy, if you fail, nobody will ask if anybody made you happy" Geez! These words felt like a sharp knife had been pierced through my heart. It hit me real bad cause I was really expecting him to pity my exams and make me happy.

But I picked his message. Words get to me and while I may mourn over it, I also build strength with it. I saw these words as a big challenge, I realized how true it was and with that I used the energy my anger produced and put in my whole self into studying and making sure I made good grades.... And I did!

........So what's the message?

You're at liberty to do what you want with the shades people throw at you.

Take what supposed haters tell you and make a great message or decision with it.

Do not build your happiness around human beings, they FAIL.

See opposition as an opportunity.

Work hard and never quit trying.

Because.....
If you fail, nobody will ask if anyone made you happy.

Have a blessed week
Love you large

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