WAITING OR WASTING?

10:43:00 am

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Good morning sweets,
How was your night? Cool? Sad? Lonely? Wrecked? Cold? Just there? Teary? Dreamy? Mine was dreamy, lol.... I use my nights to dream, write down New goals, think about the way forward and restructure my mind.

This year has been great, but hasn't been all rosy too. God has trained me this year with separation, lack, patience, perseverance, etc. It has been tough most of the time trusting God for what I can't see, feel or touch. But yet He insists I trust Him, yeah.... Like I have an option not to.

I can't count the number of times I've cried and asked God when will it be better? When will the trials be over? Worry and anxiety begin to have a hold on me and I focus on them that I forget the source of my living.

This year I have waited and believed God for a lot of things I've not seen yet. This can be tiring and exhausting really. But God never leaves me. He just finds a way to remind me His word and promises and I just hug and hold unto them because my life depend on it.

But while waiting, God has kept me busy with His assignment and this makes it all easy. I get so busy that I forget I have a need.

Darling, you may be at that waiting moment in your life, but you can't have the best from that experience if you're wasting it crying and soaking your mind in worry. It solves nothing!

Why not ask God what He wants to do with you while you wait?
If you already know what He wants you to do, why wait and waste?

Do not waste your waiting period. Make great use of it by pursuing God's purpose for your life. Always remember that whatever you're going through is preparing you for where you will be tomorrow. Trust God and trust His process.

Do not Waste while you Wait!

Love you large 😍 😘
Live fearlessly and purposefully.
#FEARLESSLIVING  

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BLOGGER AWARD: BLOGGER RECOGNITION AWARD!

11:00:00 am

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What do I dance with? My dancing shoes, sandals or slipas, lol! Whatever goes joor!

I got nominated for this award by my darling, Shanyi of The Shanyi Life.....to think we met recently and she found me deserving of this award is so humbling.

I'm not really one who gets excited when someone says "so you're a blogger?"......I'll quickly tell you, "no, I write" lol..... Write where? You'll ask... On a blog, lol.

When I got this nomination, I felt, but this award is usually for lifestyle bloggers or fashion bloggers, etc not exactly for writers per Se. Then I thought about it, whatever you choose to use your blog for, provided lives are impacted through it, it's deserving of an award. So thank you Nonso for finding me worthy of this award and I ACCEPT IT with a large heart.

Earlier this year I never saw this coming, so it's a big one for me.....#acknowdeging my humble beginnings.

First step to accepting this award is to write a post showing the award.

Next, acknowledge the blogger who nominated you.
Thanks Shanyi, I appreciate you for acknowledging what I do and thanks for being great too. You know we're yet to turn up right? Lol... Wait till we go offline😉

Next, give a brief history of how and why you started blogging.
Blogging for me was one of my first moves to Fearless living. I created this blog in 2014 but fear wouldn't let me be great. I didn't post anything on the blog because I was scared I wasn't going to make sense and who would have time to read whatever it is I'll write?

May, this year, I finally decided to #Doitafraid. You can read my first post here. Another reason I started my blog, was to write and inspire people with my writings, guess i've been doing great and thank God for those who have been impacted by the little things I do here.

Give two piece of advice to New bloggers. 
I'm also New on this journey but to those as New as I am, lol or newer than I am.... I'll tell you to always "Do it Afraid", remain consistent and stay on your lane.What I mean is, let your blog be a reflection of who you are.

Nominate 15 deserving bloggers

I Nominate Chioma Madueke, Ijay of Ijaysworld and Ife-Grace The Story Teller.... You guys are doing amazing jobs turning the world around with your pen/writing pads. This is me saying, bravo! The world is yet to celebrate your greatness.

That said.... The reward for hard work is more work.

Cheers to greater fearless strides.
You Can Be More!

Live fearlessly!
#FEARLESSLIVING

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BRICKS OF PROGRESS

12:04:00 pm

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Good morning sweets and Happy New Week!
How was your weekend? Hope exciting.....and you played for Nigeria too?
It's a new week and live goes on!

So unto the business of the day.

Achieving greatness doesn't happen overnight. It takes consistent and courageous efforts to achieve ones' goals.

To make progress in whatever goal you want to achieve, the bricks of progress helps you get there.

What are these bricks?
1. What you have at hand.
When I became more intentional about my Life and writing. What I had was my facebook account, my phone, my brain and my story. I began dishing out inspiring posts which people connected with. It gave me a solid base and an audience to reach out to. From there, I proceeded to start my blog,  hire a coach and hosting seminars which has blessed many lives, among other things I've done and yet to do.

So,what do you have that you're not using yet?

2. Consistency
To make any progress in life, you need to be consistent With whatever you're doing. People should know you for it and identify you with it.

3. Have a defined message
What message to you want to pass across? Who do you want to solve their problem? A defined message helps you stand out.

4. Improve and sharpen your skills
What you know may not be enough, so you need to improve where necessary and  learn skills that will give you an edge. Read and make research on the path you want to take.

5. Stay focused and Courageous
It doesn't matter what people say or think. It doesn't also matter whether people acknowledge or notice what you're doing. What's important is that you're consistent, people will come around.

6. Acknowledge yourself
I keep emphasinging this. People may not cheer you up, but you need to be your own Cheerleader. Always acknowledge yourself for any courageous step you take, no matter how little.

I'll just leave it here.
It doesn't matter how fast or slow you are, the important thing is to make progress.

Have a fearless week!
Love you large

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I BELIEVE IN YOU

8:22:00 am

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Happy Independence Day darlings!
You must be asking where I've been, lol... I've been here and there oh. Busy up and down, for a good cause though. I've missed sharing with you guys here seriously. I hope to be more present this month, so stay around.

When I remember my country Nigeria, I usually don't know what to think, so I try not to think about it and just live and pray for it.

A lot is not well! Economic recession and so much hardship everywhere. People are lamenting and can barely feed.

However, this post is not to keep piercing the wound, rather it's to say that while you heal I'm standing by you.

I'm trusting and believing that you'll make a glorious come back.

I'm confident that it's not over for us.

I still acknowledge you as the giant of Africa.

I won't give up on you not stop praying for you.

I'm not so bothered about those who run you, I'm just confident in the greatest ruler ever known, and I believe He will restore you.

Your land will be green again,
More fertile and bear fruits of international demand.

You are Great and Greatness is you!
Happy Birthday dear, I love you.

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