Say what?
No....... Amaka, of course I CAN! I'm a born helper.
Okay..... I hear you but sweetie there's this part of humans you can't help and you're about to find out.
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You can position yourself and write on all the visible walls on how people should treat you, but because humans will always be humans, there's every possibility that they're not going to adhere to those rules of yours.
While your principle in life may be not to take insults from people, it doesn't stop them from hauling some at you at one point or the other.
You expect people to treat you nicely, respect you, correct you in love, appreciate you, love you aright, criticise you constructively and just be nice.... Yet they don't! Even when you teach them....
What's my point exactly?
You can't help humans always, especially with how they should treat you.
So who do I help then?
Help Yourself!
Help yourself with how you receive information people pass across to you either with their words, actions or atitude.
People are at liberty to act, but you have the power to choose how you'll respond to those actions.
You are that able.
Train yourself to not be ruled by the attitude of others. Instead of being ruled by them,
choose to rule your mind and emotions and don't let people get on your nerves always and steal your joy.
Choose to accept criticisms that are true regardless of how the information is passed across to you.
Choose to hold the key to your happiness instead of handing it out to those who may mishandle it and hurt you.
Choose to not take insults seriously, rather ignore the ignorance of the insulter, lol.
Above all! CHOOSE TO HELP YOURSELF cause YOU CAN'T HELP HUMANS!
Have a Fearless Weekend
Live Fearlessly
#FEARLESSLIVING
No....... Amaka, of course I CAN! I'm a born helper.
Okay..... I hear you but sweetie there's this part of humans you can't help and you're about to find out.
--------------
You can position yourself and write on all the visible walls on how people should treat you, but because humans will always be humans, there's every possibility that they're not going to adhere to those rules of yours.
While your principle in life may be not to take insults from people, it doesn't stop them from hauling some at you at one point or the other.
You expect people to treat you nicely, respect you, correct you in love, appreciate you, love you aright, criticise you constructively and just be nice.... Yet they don't! Even when you teach them....
What's my point exactly?
You can't help humans always, especially with how they should treat you.
So who do I help then?
Help Yourself!
Help yourself with how you receive information people pass across to you either with their words, actions or atitude.
People are at liberty to act, but you have the power to choose how you'll respond to those actions.
You are that able.
Train yourself to not be ruled by the attitude of others. Instead of being ruled by them,
choose to rule your mind and emotions and don't let people get on your nerves always and steal your joy.
Choose to accept criticisms that are true regardless of how the information is passed across to you.
Choose to hold the key to your happiness instead of handing it out to those who may mishandle it and hurt you.
Choose to not take insults seriously, rather ignore the ignorance of the insulter, lol.
Above all! CHOOSE TO HELP YOURSELF cause YOU CAN'T HELP HUMANS!
Have a Fearless Weekend
Live Fearlessly
#FEARLESSLIVING
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